Artists that soulfully focus on “gettin rich” are a trip to me! In my opinion, no amount of money could ever match up to what this young girl said in her video to me. I’m humbled. This is why I do what I do. It is a movement to empower, touch hearts everywhere, at any age. The lyrics to my song TRAMP (as harsh as the tittle is) tell a very REAL story about many women of today. And how you should NOT strive to be that way and instead be a good girl. We all make mistakes yes, but YOU have the power to change and strive to be a better person

How cute is her puppy? Awww.

I’m pretty EXCITED!!! My friend Tekno Tom’s group “Speaker Junkies” will be producing some records for me. Speaker Junkies are the HOTTEST in Electro-Pop. Every DJ spins them, everyone in Europe knows them, and they came from Cali! Can’t wait to see what we come up with. Speaker Junkies & Somaya Reece. Hollaaaaaaa. We might do “Somaya Reece Live” with The Speaker Junkies tomorrow. So stay tuned, i’ll post the info here.

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Check them out.

Knowing Will I Am at one time in my life. I always like that he would say things to me like “make whatever music you want but make it dope” and that statement right there stayed in my mind until this day. My music was straight rap at one point until I traveled the world. I was then opened up to so many styles of music that it inspired me to EXPERIMENT! If I had to put my music in a “genre” it would just simply be EXPERIMENTAL. So many people don’t understand this concept because many are very close minded to the fact that music should have NO RULES! Make whatever you want, use all the effects available in your mixing, go crazy, mess with strange sounds, rap, sing, shout, make each record different than the last. I know I am…Tramp & Girls Night is a perfect example of how i’m NOT letting rules in my music.

There are no rules in music. All the artists that push the limits of creativity are the ones that raise eyebrows and you ALWAYS hear about them. Time and time again I have told people this but people choose to stay in the same place and wonder why their music has never progressed, and why they are still stuck in the same place?

Me, i’m living in the future on another galaxy while others are livin in the past. Still stuck…..

Well, what I have always admired about Willy the most is, he doesn’t allow “rules” to hinder his creativity. Listen and soak up the knowledge.

What you are about to read happens to the best of us and should not be taken lightly. Why do women, even men “tolerate” dysfunctional relationships? It’s extremely odd to me. I just don’t get it. Sometimes I wonder if it is low self esteem? Their upbringing? What is it that would allow a woman to get into any abusive or dysfunctional relationship? I truly believe that no matter how your upbringing was like, you have the power to “stop the cycle”..! Growing up, my father was an abusive alcoholic. NOTE: Thank goodness he is a changed man now. I don’t know it is because I am a strong woman, possibly sensible perhaps? I don’t know why but it did not effect me to where I would ever let a man mentally or psychically abuse me. That just simply would never happen. I experienced so much in my home, I refuse to be in an unhealthy relationship. So I question the theory that it could be because of your upbringing. YOU have the power to say NO! You have the power to leave. You must leave! You owe it to yourself, your children, your parents……..this is about YOUR safety! God forbid you loose your life due to this. So many women stay in abusive relationships due to “fear” of not being able to find another mate. Some are threatened with psychical abuse! Some stay for the sex. The sex is great so they over look the abuse. No matter what the case is. Know that YOU have the power to leave. YOU have value. YOU deserve happiness.

I sit and listen to this one friend of mine tell me every week “I’m gonna leave him, this time i’m serious” and as soon as he comes crawling. She takes him back. I ask her all the time why she deals with it? Mind you this girl is educated, has her own money, owns her car, a degree, etc. Yet she continues to tell me he will change. But never does. He also tells her how ugly, fat and unworthy of a man she is. Yet. Why is he with her? If she is soooo bad, ugly, fat etc. Then, why are you with her? It’s simple. It’s like a weird reverse psychology these types of men pull on women. They find weak women to prey on to make themselves feel as if they are in power. Which in fact, THEY ARE IN POWER! They are controlling you and you continue to make excuses for them.

Ladies, YOU have value. You have no idea how valuable you are! A relationship is supposed to make you happy, not sad. Although all relationships have their share of arguments, they are not supposed to be forced or abusive. If you are going through this. You need to get out before it’s too late. You deserve better, and there are many GOOD men out there that would be more than willing to treat you like the Queen you are. I would suggest that you should find yourself first. You know the saying “if you don’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else”…? It’s 100% truth! You have to find your happiness first before you can be happy with anyone. If you are not happy, you will bring baggage to your future relationships. If you are not happy, you will always over look things that are not good for you. YOU HAVE VALUE!

Look deep inside and figure out what you are missing in your life? Why are you dealing with abusive relationships? Why would you not want to happy? After you figure that out, then you will find a great relationship that will bring you smiles and not tears Empower yourself. Be your own woman.

If you need help, call on your friend or a family member. If you feel you can’t do that, I will prove a few contacts on how to get help. I love all of you and want you to be happy. I hope this and many of my blogs help you in life. I like sharing advice because what is the point of being such a huge influence to society, if I can’t offer help, inspiration or advice? It’s my pleasure to help out. That’s what i’m here for. You can also call me 1(213)785-7668

For help in your area US (I will look for International info too)

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Click here for help in your area and a direct website for Domestic Abuse

You don’t have to live in fear

If you are afraid for your safety or have been beaten by your partner:

* Dial 911 or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-787-3224.

Information below provided by www.helpguide.org

I’m back from Seattle! Had a great time shooting my music video with Swag for my record collabo with him called “Our Love”…! Well, i’s sunny in L.A, air is breezy, i’m blasting beats, writing raps while sippin coffee. I don’t know what made me think of  “her” but I did. Charlie Baltimore!!! When I first heard of her I had the illest girl crush on her whole vibe. She’s tuff and rebellious. I LOVE REBELLIOUS WOMEN. I been a rebel since I was a kid, still am, always will be. So you already know I was feelin her flow and attitude. Anyways, I was watching some of her videos and it dawned on me. YO!!!!! C was so ahead of the game with fashion. It’s crazy how people didn’t really notice that and now you see all these fashions everywhere. I remember thinking back then how she reminded me of a “comic-book super heroine” and if you know me you know that I look up to women with those attitudes. Click here to read about this I’m not interested or dig the Barbie hype that seems to have flooded the media. I look up to STRONG women with leadership traits. KICK ASS WOMEN that make no excuses. So fly! Anyhow. Check it out. Trip right? Her fashion game was so far ahead it’s crazy.

Charlie Baltimore…..I need to do a record with her.

This is just a track, but it also features another one of my favorite female MC’s Eve!